Understand how to spot silent signs of pain in seniors with memory loss—so they don’t suffer in silence.
Caring for a loved one with dementia involves more than managing memory loss—it also requires staying alert to subtle changes that may signal discomfort or pain. Although dementia itself does not cause physical pain, those living with this condition still experience it, just like anyone else. What’s different is how they communicate it—or don’t.
A person with dementia may not have the ability to clearly express when something hurts. In fact, they might deny having pain altogether, either due to confusion or limited verbal ability. That’s why understanding the nonverbal signs of pain is essential for caregivers. Your attentiveness could be the key to relieving unnecessary suffering.
Your loved one may not say "I'm in pain," but their body and behavior may tell a different story. Watch for:
Other behavioral indicators can also point to discomfort:
If you notice any of these signs occurring frequently or with increased intensity, it’s important to investigate further.
Start by observing and documenting patterns. Ask yourself:
Share your observations with a healthcare provider. You don’t need to diagnose the issue—but your detailed notes can help the doctor evaluate the situation and decide on appropriate treatment or symptom management strategies.
In the later stages of dementia, your loved one may not fully grasp the source of their discomfort. Even so, they can still experience and respond to comfort. If no clear medical intervention is possible, focus on delivering compassionate care in other ways:
These small acts of kindness can go a long way in relieving emotional and physical distress—even when words are no longer available.
Geriatric care managers (GCMs) are trained professionals who specialize in identifying and addressing the hidden needs of older adults, including those with dementia. They understand how pain can manifest nonverbally and work closely with families, doctors, and caregivers to ensure that no symptom goes unnoticed.
At LiveWell, our care managers can:
Whether your loved one lives at home or in a care setting, our GCMs act as compassionate advocates—making sure pain and discomfort are managed promptly and effectively.
Even without words, pain leaves a trace. If you're concerned that your loved one with dementia may be silently suffering, don't wait.