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May 31, 2025

Is It Time to Stop Driving? A Guide for Families Supporting Aging Loved Ones

How to recognize when it’s no longer safe for a senior to drive—and how geriatric care managers at LiveWell can help ease the transition

Driving is often seen as a symbol of freedom and independence. For many older adults, the ability to drive represents autonomy, mobility, and connection to the outside world. But as we age, physical, cognitive, and sensory changes can affect our ability to drive safely—and knowing when it's time to stop can be one of the most difficult decisions a family faces.

At LiveWell Care Management, our team of Aging Life Care Professionals® supports families with the guidance, resources, and compassionate conversations needed to make thoughtful, safety-focused decisions about driving and independence.

Why Driving Becomes Riskier with Age

While older adults are typically more cautious drivers, they are also more likely to be seriously injured or killed in accidents. Age-related conditions such as frailty, reduced bone density, and slower reaction times contribute to higher injury risks—even in minor collisions.

In addition, many seniors continue to drive older vehicles—often 15 years or more past their production date—which may lack modern safety features like:

Backup cameras

Lane departure warnings

Blind-spot monitoring

Electronic stability control

Side-impact airbags

Without these technologies, older drivers are more vulnerable in high-risk situations on the road.

Distraction and Cognitive Load in Older Drivers

A 2023 study from the University of California, Riverside found that older adults are more susceptible to distractionwhile driving—especially when multitasking or processing visual and auditory stimuli, such as:

Road signs and billboards

Noisy radio advertisements

Nearby conversations or GPS prompts

This age-related decline in filtering out distractions can impair focus and decision-making, increasing the chance of accidents.

Health Factors That Affect Driving Safety

Driving requires sharp cognitive function, coordination, and reflexes. For many aging adults, medical concerns can interfere with safe driving, including:

Hearing Impairment

Although hearing loss doesn’t automatically disqualify someone from driving, it may impact their ability to detect important cues like sirens, horns, or car trouble—especially when combined with vision decline or slower reflexes.

Cognitive Decline or Early Dementia

Mild cognitive impairment may seem subtle at first, but it can have a profound impact behind the wheel. Driving involves split-second decision-making, and even minor lapses in memory or judgment can lead to serious consequences.

Medication Side Effects

Seniors often take multiple prescriptions, some of which may cause:

Drowsiness

Dizziness

Confusion

Delayed reaction time

Any of these side effects can impair driving ability—even temporarily.

How to Talk to a Loved One About Giving Up Driving

Bringing up the idea of retiring from driving can be emotionally charged. Many older adults fear losing their independence and becoming isolated. But with the right approach, the conversation can be empowering rather than limiting.

Acknowledge Their Feelings

Let your loved one express their concerns and frustrations. Acknowledge that this is a big change, but frame it as a step toward safety and wellness, not a loss of control.

Highlight the Benefits

Point out the cost savings—no more car insurance, fuel, maintenance, or registration fees. These savings can be redirected toward things they enjoy:

Hobbies and classes

Entertainment subscriptions

Home improvements or tech upgrades

Even a new pet companion

Provide Alternative Transportation Options

Giving up driving doesn’t mean staying home. There are many reliable and accessible transportation services for seniors, including:

Local para-transit programs

Non-emergency medical transportation

Home care agencies offering escorted rides

Private senior transportation services with door-to-door assistance

How LiveWell Can Help Families Navigate Driving Concerns

At LiveWell, our care managers are skilled in helping families assess driving safety and support aging adults through this life transition. We offer:

In-home safety and cognitive assessments

Referrals to driving rehabilitation specialists

Medication reviews with licensed professionals

Family mediation and planning for next steps

Coordination of transportation alternatives and mobility services

We’re here to ensure your loved one stays safe, connected, and empowered—even without a driver’s license.

Concerned about a parent’s driving or unsure how to start the conversation?

Contact LiveWell Care Management today for a free initial consultation and compassionate support in helping your loved one maintain safety and independence—on and off the road.

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